Thursday, June 18, 2009

halo lisa is back!

Halo dear friends I'm back!!!
Busy,exhausted.....my recently life.....
Many duties, jobs and responsibilities fullfill my daily routine....
No time to have a rest...but I quite enjoy with it....



Talk about working......
Enjoy working here...although there are so many jobs waiting me to finish and complete...
because my relationship with colleagues very good....so nice working with them...
they treat me very nice...all of them are so friendly.....
sometimes we chit chat.....sometimes we eating snack...the feeling is so good...although I'm tired on end of everyday....



Talk about mummy-ing....
My baby....9 months already....healthy....cutie...
and know how to call 'papa' liao!!!
But still don't know how to call 'mama'...sad.....never mind...
be patient...give him some time......he knows how to 'give me 5', 'dim chong chong' and others...
of course is more naughty liao....


Talk about wife-ing....
Our relationship still like that lo...no changes...still hot like we pah toh that time...hahaha
He treat me nice... don't worry my friends....
just sometimes I found that he don't know how to express his caring to me...but I know...he is care about me just he don't know how to show it.....I really know about it....
Not planning to have second child on this period....haha....it is true.....things are so costly nowadays....it is not easy to take care of a child....and educate him...really not easy....
Wait until we have save enough money for ourself...then maybe......>.<



Talk about daughter-in law-ing......bad....bad.....bad.....
I would like to continue my post in mandarin....sorry ah kiong....
媳妇永远都是别人的孩子。我开始有点认同。
不管我做得多好,我始终属于别人的孩子。
女儿的一句话,胜过媳妇的十句话。
有时心情好,就会跟你谈得开心。
有时心情不好,就会给你脸色看。
有时真的很不好受。可是却只能默默忍受,不能呻吟。
因为有她帮忙照顾孩子,因为有她帮忙打点家里的事务,因为她是我老公的妈妈,因为。。。。。
所以我只能把这所有的不满吞进肚子里,埋藏在心里,不能表达出来,不能发泄出来,唯有在这里宣泄,用一种不会对他人造成伤害的方法,而且也是最能表达我的内心世界的方法。
“嫁鸡随鸡,嫁狗随狗”,这句话我必须时常提醒自己。

好了,别再想这么多了,要想开点,不然只会让自己越来越难受,越来越痛苦。
丽霞,加油!要开心点!看看你的孩子,多么的可爱,多么的天真无邪,想着他,就想着他,你的烦恼就会消失了!

To Lisa: Don't Worry, Be Happy.
To Lisa's friends: Take Care and Miss.